Helping Children Bring Their Passions to Life

Doing Good Together February 2014: Helping Children Bring Their Passions to Life


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February 2014

As you make service and kindness a focus in your family's life, your children will suggest ideas for how they want to build a better world. Perhaps your daughter has voiced concern that not everyone in her school has hats and mittens. Maybe your son worries about the fate of homeless pets. Your child may have a friend with juvenile diabetes and want to raise money to find a cure, or may read about a natural disaster and want to help. How can you best support your child's passion for change? Here are some tips for guiding and sustaining your child's selfless impulses.


Also see our suggestions for Valentine's Day gifts for all the loved ones on your list. 

 Jenny Friedman, Executive Director 

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  • Do research. Help your child find information about their cause. Steer them to books, blogs, websites, videos or articles. If your child is younger, read together about the issue. Most important, make it a family conversation. Pose questions that stimulate thinking about the problem-and possible solutions.
  • Discover local organizations. Search on VolunteerMatch or check with your community volunteer center to see if a local group is taking on this issue. If so, study their website, then arrange for a visit, conversation and tour.
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  • Decide on an action plan. Now that you're educated, help your child settle on a course of action. Here are possibilities:
    • Volunteer. If your child discovers an organization that needs a helping hand, consider volunteering. If no kid- or family-friendly job is apparent, ask the volunteer coordinator for ideas.
    • Educate others. Encourage your child to spread the word about the cause. Your child (or the whole family) might consider using social media, arranging for a speaker, writing an e-newsletter, distributing flyers, or making a presentation or movie. The idea is to get people engaged.
    • Organize a collection. Many causes are in desperate need of supplies, everything from sandwiches to children's magazines to cast-off coats. Make sure the charity has a place to store the items before you begin. Check out this archived newsletter for a step-by-step guide .
    • Host a fundraiser. Most causes need funds. You'll see several creative Big Hearted Families options for fundraisers at our Big-Hearted Families website. Tell the receiving organization about your plans beforehand; they can often provide valuable assistance.
    • AdvocateSuggest your child write to your local representatives about the issue. Or begin a petition or start a club with like-minded friends or neighbors. 
  • Follow through. Remind your child that it's important to follow through, even if generating interest (or keeping up their own interest) is tougher than they thought. That means sticking with their commitment to volunteer, writing thank-you notes to anyone who helps or donates, and being a good steward of collected items or funds.
Act as Mentor and Motivator 

TalkTalk About It.....


Whether you take a "hands off" approach with your child's project or decide to work alongside them, try to act as a sounding board. Talking together and expressing support might be the most important role parents can play in nurturing their child's passion for service and activism. Here are some questions to help get the conversation going.


  • Tell me about the issue you want to do something about. Why is it important to you?
  • What have you learned about this issue? How could you learn more?
  • What kind of action do you think will make a difference?
  • Do you want to work on your own, with the family, or gather a group of friends to join in with you?
  • Are you comfortable trying to generate interest in your cause among family and friends? Community members? The media? How would you do that?
  • If you ask someone for help and they turn you down, what will you say to the person?
  • What will you do if you begin the project and start to feel discouraged?
  • Now that the project is over, what did you enjoy most about it? What surprised you? What would you do differently if you did it again? What's your next step?
Learn About It..... 

Some books can inspire passion; others provide practical guidance. Here are a few of each.


 A ValueTales Treasury: Stories for Growing Good People by Spencer Johnson. Ages 4-8. These are motivating, creative biographies of people who have lived out their values to 

help others. 


Make a Difference 101 by Sande Hart. Ages 10 and up. 
Miss Rumphius
This comprehensive workbook is a step-by-step guide 
to help kids (and adults) figure out how to use their interests to make a difference. Available in print or e-book.


Miss Rumphius by Barbara Cooney. Ages 4-8. A delightful classic about growing old gracefully and the importance of living your dream and bringing beauty into the world.


The Kid's Guide to Social Action: How to Solve the Social Problems You Choose - and Turn Creative Thinking into Positive Action by Barbara A. Lewis. Ages 9-12.These stories of kids who've made a difference will inspire young activists, and the how-to sections (on writing letters, creating petitions, fundraising, getting media coverage) will give kids the skills to change the world.


The Teen Guide to Global Action: How to Connect with Others (Near & Far) to Create Social Change by Barbara A. Lewis Ages 12 an up. Real stories and thoughtful ideas blend to inspire and jump-start acts of global service.



"The meaning of life is to find your gift. The purpose of life is to give it away." 


    Joy J. Golliver, author  

NewsNews from DGT

Looking for a Valentine's Day gift that spreads loving kindness, but doesn't buy into the typical commercialism of the holiday? We have three great ideas.

  • Big-Hearted Families Book Club: Transform family night into a lively, book-centered kindness practice. Each month your gift recipient will receive 1 fantastic book + 1 novel recipe + 1 related kindness activity -- right to their mailbox! Subscribe for one month, three months or a full year. Appropriate for children ages 4-8. Order your subscription from our Big-Hearted Families shop.
  • Crafts With Kindness: This all-in-one craft kit makes it easy for families to complete a meaningful service project, no matter how busy they may be. Available from our Big-Hearted Families shop.
  • Make a donation to Doing Good Together in the name of a loved one. There's no better way to honor the spirit of Valentine's Day than by supporting an organization whose mission is to raise kind, caring children. We can send a card acknowledging your gift.

For each of these gifts, 100% of the proceeds directly benefit nonprofits that support children and families. 


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